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THE
LIFE OF ST. RITA of CASCIA
Rita
was born in the year 1381 in the village of Rocaporena, near Cascia ,
in Italy. Her Parents, Antonio and Amata Lotti, considered her birth a
very special gift from God, for Rita, their only child, was born to
them when they were already advancing in age. As a young girl Rita
frequently visited the convent of the Augustinian Nuns in Cascia and
dreamed of one day joining their community. Her parents however, had
different plans for Rita and promised her in marriage, according to
the custom of the day, to Paolo Mancini, a young man but of a strong
and impetuous character. Though disappointed at not being able to
enter the convent, Rita accepted her parents' decision, resolved to
see this as God's will for her.
At
the age of eighteen the young couple were joined in marriage and set
up home in the house her parents had left her. Twin boys were born to
them and Rita found herself occupied with the concerns of a wife,
mother and homemaker, while Paolo was employed as a watchman for the
town. In Cascia, as elsewhere in Italy at the time, a great rivalry
existed between two popular factions, the Guelphs and the Ghibellines.
As a minor official of the town, Paolo often found himself drawn into
the conflict, and the strain which this caused probably accounts for
the tension Paolo sometimes brought into the Mancini household. By her
prayer, patience and affection Rita was able to ease the stress and
worry her husband experienced, but she was not able to shield him
altogether from the dangers to which his work exposed him.
One
day as Paolo was returning home from his work he was ambushed and
killed. The pain which this unexpected and violent death inflicted
upon Rita was only compounded by the fear she felt that her two
teenage sons moved by the unwritten law of "vendetta", would
seek to avenge the father's death. Rita's only recourse was to pray.
As it happened, the death of both boys from natural causes , a short
time later removed them from material and spiritual danger. Despite
her great burden she could still thank God that they had died in
peace, free of the poison of murder to which hatred and revenge might
have otherwise drawn them.
Now
alone in the world and without family responsibilities, Rita once more
turned her thoughts to the desired vocation of her youth, that of
joining the Augustinian Nuns of Saint Margaret Mary Monastery. Some of
the religious of the community, however , were relatives of members of
the political action considered responsible for Paolo's death and, so
as not to tempt the harmony of the convent, Rita's request for
admission was denied. Fortunately, she was not to be easily dissuaded
from following what she knew to be God's plan for her. She implored
her three favorite saints- John the Baptist, Augustine and Nicholas of
Tolentine, a recently canonized Augustinian friar- to assist her and
she set about the task of establishing peace between the hostile
parties of Cascia with such success that her entry into the monastery
was assured.
At
the age of thirty-six Rita pledged to follow the ancient Rule of Saint
Augustine and after his own example, to live with her fellow religious
in unity of mind and heart as together they pursued God. For the next
forty years she gave herself wholeheartedly to prayer and works of
Charity, caring for the sick and needy and working especially to
preserve peace
and harmony among the citizens of Cascia. With a pure love she wanted
more and more to be intimately joined to the redemptive suffering of
Jesus and this desire of hers was satisfied in an extraordinary way.
One day when she was about sixty years of age she was meditating
before an image of Christ crucified, as she was accustomed to do.
Suddenly, a small wound appeared on her forehead, as though a thorn
from the crown that encircled Christ's head had loosed itself and
penetrated her own flesh, For the next fifteen years, the remainder of
her life, she bore this external sign of stigmatization and union with
the Lord. In spite of the pain she constantly experienced, she offered
herself courageously for the physical and spiritual well-being of
others.
During
the last four years of her life Rita was confined to bed and was able
to eat so little that she was practically sustained on the Eucharist
alone. She was, nevertheless, an inspiration to her sisters in
religion and to all who came to visit her, by her patience and joyful
disposition despite her great suffering.
One
of those who visited her some months before her death- a relative from
her hometown - was privileged to witness first-hand the extraordinary
things wrought by Rita's requests. When asked whether she had any
special desires , Rita asked only that a rose from the garden of her
parents' home be brought to her. It was a small favor to ask, but
quite an impossible one to grant in the month of January.
Nevertheless, on returning home the woman discovered, to her amazement
, a single brightly-colored blossom on the bush where the nun said it
would be. Picking it, she returned immediately to the monastery and
presented it to Rita who gave thanks to God for this sign of his love.
Thus the saint of the thorn became the saint of the rose and she whose
impossible requests were granted her, became the advocate of all those
whose own requests seem impossible as well. As she breathed her last,
Rita's final words to the sisters who gathered around her were:"
Remain in the holy love of Jesus. Remain in obedience to the holy
Roman Catholic Church. Remain in peace and fraternal charity."
Having
faithfully and lovingly responded to God's many invitations to her in
the course of her seventy-six years. Rita returned to him in peace on
May 22, 1457. As a special sign of God's favor, granted to only a
small number of those the Church has raised to sainthood, Rita's body
has remained incorrupt over the centuries. It is venerated today in
the shrine next to the monastery in Cascia . Her feast day is observed
on the anniversary of her death- May 22. She is invoked as the "
Saint of Impossible" because of the exemplary way in which she
met with the many difficulties or crosses in her own life and turned
them into instruments of growth in holiness before God.
DAILY
PRAYER TO SAINT RITA
Dear
Saint Rita, during your entire life on earth you found your happiness
by following the will of our heavenly Father. Help me to be as
trusting of God in all his designs for me., Help me this day to give
myself to him as you did, without limit, without fear, without
counting the cost. Help me to be generous in serving the needs of
others, patient in all difficulties, forgiving toward all who injure
me. Help me to learn more deeply the great mystery of the cross of
Jesus, so that by embracing it as you did, I may come to experience
its power to heal and to save. Amen
PRAYER
TO SAINT RITA IN SPECIAL NEED
O
powerful Saint Rita, rightly called Saint of the Impossible, I come to
you with confidence in my great need. You know well my trials, for you
yourself were many times burdened in this life. Come to my help, speak
for me, pray with me, intercede on my behalf before the Father. I know
that God has a most generous heart and that he is a most loving
Father. Join your prayers to mine and obtain for me the grace I
desire (here mention your request). You who were so very
pleasing to God on earth and are so much so now in heaven, I promise
to use this favor, when granted , to better my life, to proclaim God's
mercy and to make you more widely known and loved. Amen
PRAYER
FOR THE SUFFERING
Lord
you are close to the brokenhearted; you save those whose spirit is
crushed. Give us courage and strength in time of suffering so that
like Saint Rita who shared in your Son's passion, we may enter more
deeply into the mystery of suffering and experience the joy of
redemption that lies at its heart. Amen
PRAYER
FOR FAMILIES
God
of mercy and peace you gave to Saint Rita the grace to love even those
who live by hatred and revenge. As you, so graciously blessed her, I
ask you to bless my family. Through the intercession of Saint Rita,
model of patience and fortitude, bless and protect us from all selfish
ways. Make us grow strong in the Spirit of Charity and forgiveness,
and like your servant Rita, may we be faithful peacemakers in our
family in our neighborhood, and in our world. Amen
SAINT
RITA.......PRAY FOR US |